Aging and Sexual Desire

 

So often people believe that aging and sexual desire are mutually exclusive; that when we get to a certain age in our lives, happiness versus pleasure is the most important aspect of the human relationship.  But I believe that some of the most wonderful sexual rewards come to those who combine creativity and sexuality, if not to increase pleasure, then to enjoy lovemaking as the lifelong treasure that it was meant to be.

 

The sexual habit begins in our teen years when there is a lot of energy but little to no sexual technique or controlBody curves, kissing and adult toys such as the liberator pillow add fun to the excitement.  But nothing replaces knowledge, and although there is plenty of recycling sexual energy to try, try again, the second and third time can never be as good as the first time, if done right. 

 

Loving sex involves a sensual couple that has grown as the result of lovemaking techniques garnered from communication, experimentation, and sensual knowledge of each other.  You just don’t have that when you’re young and you think you know everything.  It is a trial and error that happens over the years.  Learning how to prolong pleasure so that both partners have an opportunity to fulfill their needs takes more than pleasure tips; it takes time, something that seniors usually have more of.

And even though the refractory period for the aging male increases as the male’s age increases, Kegel exercises and the use of cock rings can be very helpful in maintaining his erection.

 Impotence can be avoided with good sexual nutrition (an alkaline diet), aerobic and Kegel exercises, and appreciating all of the body, including the prostate.  For many men, the best prostate pleasure comes from rubbing the perineum.  Don’t ignore your prostate because you think that stimulating it labels you homosexual.  It has its purpose, and for a lucky few, that purpose is multiple orgasm.  Just like any other body part, if you don’t use it, you lose it (or better put, you lose the use of it).

 And aging and sexual desire for women can also be one of the greatest joys.  No longer concerned about getting pregnant, knowing more about themselves and their needs, more able to represent themselves in the bedroom, and using products such as ON Arousal Oil, among the best clitoral stimulants made today, can take your desire and libido from idling to steady passion.  There is lots of help out there if we want it.

 The time is ours.  Taking care of your body so you can enjoy a lifetime of sexual pleasure is one of the greatest rewards for good health. We may have to compensate with a wonderful sensual lube or sensual video to increase desire, or even a sensual full body massage, but the efforts we put into maintaining our sexuality will reward us with a healthier body, increased appreciation of self, and a loving relationship that, like a fine wine, gets better with age.

 

 

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