A group of good friends, women all, are organizing a Bachelorette party and it promises to be lots of fun! There are so many exciting and novel approaches to this modern day rite of passage, that at first, it’s almost a little mind-boggling!
Since unlike other parties which take place in one location, this party travels, so the bridal party must decide the course of the evening's festivities.
The evening begins with food and drink. Will they start in an individual’s home, restaurant, or rent a hotel room and then travel to a bar for dancing, drinking and flirting?
Since this is her farewell to being single, it has to be over the top fun and positively memorable. Surrounded by her good friends, and a few age appropriate relatives such as sisters and cousins, a leased limo is usually the best means of transportation to take them from one party location to the next.
The maid of honor usually spearheads the organization of food, drinks, decorations, hot music and the kind of entertainment she knows the guest of honor will appreciate. She relies on the entire bridal party to participate in all aspects of the party's coordination.
Many times the entertainment has included an exotic male dancer. He seduces, strips, and sensually moves around the room, collecting tips and flirting with the guests. A bona fide fantasy, he provocatively entices each woman.
As he keeps pace with the throbbing beat, the atmosphere heats up. His services cost anywhere from $125 - $150, for 20 - 30 minutes of his show, often with generous tips supplied by the guests.
Recently, the Pleasure Party industry has been used to supply warm-up entertainment before the women start their evening of revelry.
If the pleasure party representative is fun, has a good sense of humor and is informative as well, this is a great way to get things going, figuratively and literally.
Her presentation can give the bride additional insights into marriage that the bride’s mother may never have considered, as well as the products to keep their monogamy fun. A pleasure party is a great way to get everyone warmed up, relaxed and in a party mood.
Along with purchases for the bride, the guests often choose goodies for their own pleasure. A portion of the sales goes towards the hostess credit for either the bride or the party coordinator.
Every Bachelorette party is unique. With penis shaped cakes, water guns, straws, ice molds, balloons, necklaces and table cloths, the emphasis is on celebrating the sexual union that marriage promises, with fun, laughter, and promises for fulfillment.