Advice on Oral Sex
My advice on oral sex is to remember that when it comes to pleasuring with the tongue, men and women are pleasured very differently. The only truism for both is that copious amounts of lubrication or saliva are necessary to make whatever techniques you employ comfortable, exciting and deliciously satisfying. Click Here!
Nature did not create the clitoris with a high tolerance for friction, so you’ll need to coat your tongue with saliva before licking this extremely sensitive private part. After a few moments, saliva will automatically run down your tongue and everything will be well lubricated, but not from the start. Another method for keeping the mouth moist is by using ice. Titillate the vaginal passage by placing the ice inside, or keep it in the mouth for licking the tip of the penis. Either way, the thrill of the chill is nearly irresistible. If ice is too messy, consider using
Sex Rocks
to simulate with a cool, tingly sensation of ice but that lasts considerably longer.Another bit of advice on oral sex is positioning. For men to receive fellatio, the most effective position is to place yourself between his legs, facing his body. This gives your tongue direct access to the most sensitive parts of his penis and scrotum, and the angle minimizes the tendency of the penis head to rub against your teeth. It’s comfortable for the doer, and visually stimulating to the receiver. To include the scrotum in the Blow Job, it’s a good idea to shave the testicles. Smooth and hair-free they are a pleasure to lick, kiss, and take into the mouth without getting any hairs caught in your throat. Use
Coochy Cream
for a close shave without bumps, nicks, cuts, or rash.
While on the subject of fellatio, it bears mentioning that truly great blow jobs have nothing to do with deep throating. The most sensitive area of the penis is the head. The throat does not suck.
To give the most physically exciting fellatio, the concentration of suction should take place at the head. Include lots of kissing, licking and sucking.
When it comes to swallowing semen, do it only if you want to. There are so many different textures, flavors and volumes that come from different men. Unless the guy is willing to taste his own semen, he shouldn’t insist that anyone else swallow it. There is so much misinformation when it comes to oral sex. If your main exposure to learning about it has been watching porn, forget everything you’ve ever seen or think you know. Pornography, although visually exciting, is not always good technique or educational in nature. The best advice on oral sex that I can give is if you want to be terrific at it, ask what your partner likes! No two people like being stimulated in the exact same way. A mediocre lover knows what a partner wants without having to ask. An accomplished lover implores his partner to give him all the direction, advice and technique they possibly can. When it comes to stimulating the clitoris with the tongue, remember the tip of the tongue can be made hard or soft. Try a soft tongue when licking the underbelly of the clitoris, and a harder, more pointed tongue when licking the side of the clitoris or clitoral shaft. A smart and loving tongue between her legs can offer feelings of pleasure that fingers or a penis simply can’t. But don’t immediately dive into the clitoris and stay there. Warm up by licking all of the vaginal area. Suck on the labia. Then turn your attention to the clitoris. There are several positions for orally pleasuring a woman’s genitals, and with time you may evolve your own variations. The best advice on oral sex is that practice makes perfect, so practice, practice, practice and ---enjoy!
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