Extended Pleasure CondomsThere are two reasons guys would wear extended pleasure condoms. The first is to protect against pregnancy and disease. The second is to prolong his erection by preventing premature ejaculation. If he has no control over when he ejaculates, there are much better ways and products on the market than this type of condom, which, by the looks of the reviews, is a misnomer.
How can they be called ‘pleasure’ condoms when the guy’s penis gets so numb he feels absolutely nothing? So many guys reported they were so numb they didn’t even know that the condom had slipped off. At that point he’s not protected and he doesn’t even know it. Another disadvantage to this type of condom is that if it isn’t worn properly and some of the desensitizing agent or excessive lubricant gets inside the woman’s vagina, she too is desensitized. At that point you may as well call it a night and watch a movie. Sex is supposed to bring about mutual ecstasy; it’s not just a meeting of genitals who are so numb they can’t even feel each other!!
The first option is to re-learn the habit of orgasm with the Squeeze Technique. Masturbate slowly without bringing yourself to orgasm for one week. Take your time. Each time you’re almost ready to explode, squeeze just under the head of the penis. This will cause the penis to “back down” a bit. Then, stimulate yourself once more to the same point and squeeze again. Each session should last about 20 minutes.
During the first third of the male arousal, all guys have control. Then, there’s a signal, almost imperceptible unless you’re taking your time, that I call the “yellow flag”. This signal lets you know that you are just before the ‘Point of No Return’. After a week of this slow stimulation and no orgasm, on the eighth day allow the orgasm after ten or fifteen minutes of slow strokes. This orgasm will be considerably more intense and deeply satisfying, not only physically, but mentally as well. By practicing keeping yourself in your control zone, eventually, you’ll be able to re-teach yourself the habit of orgasm.
For a quick fix to premature ejaculation, I recommend Pleasure Balm by The Kama Sutra Company. This minty tasting gel that has a cooling, slightly numbing effect, but unlike extended pleasure condoms, how much of a desensitizing effect is determined by how much you use. Use an eighth of a teaspoon rubbed only into the penis head and not into the urethra or down the shaft. Let it soak in for 2 or more minutes and you’re ready for action. If you’re using a regular condom over it, there’s no need to wait 2 minutes because the condom keeps the gel from rubbing off inside of her. Pleasure Balm helps guys last an additional ½ hour to 45 minutes or even longer. The entire time he can enjoy every exquisite sensation his body can produce without the use of the numbing of extended pleasure condoms.
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