Lovemaking Techniques

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Some of the greatest lovemaking techniques ever experienced were performed by an individual who understood that lovemaking is a living art. Love making happens when both individuals are there to give and receive pleasure, from the first intimate moment to the last sensual and erotic touch. Nothing about it is rushed, hurried, or goal oriented. It is an exceptional union, and one that we all deserve.



Nothing about lovemaking techniques are animalistic.  On the contrary, they are created from the mind and hands of an artist whose expertise, erotic knowledge and the secrets to making sexual magic are evident.

The kisses are tender, well placed, and the sensual areas are explored for all of their erotic potential. Erogenous zones, when discovered, are stroked, kissed, embraced and stimulated to an exquisite point of desire.

No matter what physical actions are being used, for sexual techniques to work best, the first thing that needs to get excited is the imagination. Since the mind is where orgasm begins, anything you do to excite it enhances your techniques.

Having said that, then, the most important lovemaking technique is to use your words to create desire.  

Your voice is one of the most powerful erotic tools you have to create desire, stimulate the libido, and get the blood and juices flowing.   As you watch any or all of the Alexander Sexual Education videos you can and should discuss what is exciting, stimulating and intriguing to you both.  Shared desire is thrilling just in the communication.  Taking it to the physical level is all the more incredible.

There are many levels of sexual intercourse. The difference between the most basic, called getting screwed, to the highest, called making love, is the amount of time and energy applied.



No one likes getting screwed; where one person uses the other with no regard for their partner. It takes about five minutes and the female's pleasure is not even a consideration.

Because it is over so quickly, it is the least satisfying of all sexual acts. It doesn’t include any lovemaking techniques, is selfish, and physically and mentally one-sided,

The male who pursues this kind of sexual relationship will usually end up with prostate problems since the prostate isn’t stimulated during quick sex.



He also lives with the knowledge that he has a problem with premature ejaculation, and can only feel guilt, remorse, and worry about being abandoned because of this approach. In essence, he is screwing himself out of meaningful intimacy.




Getting laid is when there is no communication between the partners. Their sexual activity is routine with little to no sexual imagination. It is called getting laid because one just lays down and accepts what is being done without any real participation. Except for a kiss or two, it is usually the kind of sexual relation which leaves both participants wanting a lot more.

Having sex is what most people do. There are some basic sexual techniques include kisses, with the breast, body curves and buttocks enjoying the caressing.

The bodies are nude and a few of the major erogenous zones have been stroked. Having sex takes about fifteen to twenty minutes. It usually leads to orgasm and is sexually satisfying, especially for individuals who are pressed for time.


The greatest level of sexual activity comes when we actually make love. This scenario requires the most energy from both partners who come to give to each other. The needs of the other are paramount. 

It takes anywhere from an hour or more and involves kisses, massage, possibly a tongue bath, lots of embracing with mostly all of the erogenous zones getting stimulated. When it comes to lovemaking techniques, making love requires the highest caliber artist.


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