Out at last

by Kris
(315, NY)

In a nutshell: I'm 60, average looking, and freshly out. I have never appeared to be anything other than straight (even though I spent years seeking a bi or lez experience; "under the table", so to speak---the one time I hooked up with a bi-curious friend, she immediately told her husband, who told mine, etc., ad nauseam. Mr.Ex knew my sexuality when I married him, and agreed to allow it--however, he interpreted it to mean that two women would service him. When he found out about the above experience he beat me and then raped me.) I'm incredibly ready, and looking for another 55+ bbw. I don't even remember how to flirt, and have no idea where to meet others.

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Mar 12, 2015
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Keep your eyes, ears and Heart open
by: Ellen

You are SO welcome. Life doesn't have to be complicated. Know what you want, write it down, be as specific as possible and keep your eyes, ears and heart open. Expect good things and they'll happen.

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by: Anonymous

Thank you!

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Finding the partner you'll resonate with
by: Ellen

This suggestion may sound incredibly simple and naive but it has worked for me and many others and it can work for you. I cannot take credit for it--It is called Treasure Mapping.

Whenever we create anything, it is always a good idea to start with a blueprint. From there we realize how we want the structure to look.
Without the blueprint, we change our minds daily, heck sometimes moment to moment, on what we're looking for. Sometimes, the perfect person may be standing right in front of us, but because we haven't defined it for ourselves, we don't see those qualities.

Write down every attribute you'd want your perfect partner to be. Physical and emotional traits should all be listed. Don't leave out anything. Put in on your fridge or anyplace in your home that you see every day. I guarantee, within 6 months of that list, serendipity and intention will lead you to your partner. Keep an open mind and an open heart. Good Luck.

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