Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking

The secrets of sensual lovemaking aren't well kept secrets. They involve taking your time, exploring your lover with the intention of giving pleasure, and being mindful of what you're doing and how your lover is reacting. To heighten the sensations include feathers or fur. Some of the most erotic, exciting techniques are not difficult. They don’t need years of study. They are available to almost everyone. So why are they secrets? Because in commonplace lovemaking these techniques are rarely ever used.

To heighten the sense of touch, use any incredibly soft material that isn’t produced simply by laying hands on bare skin. This will create a sensation of unbelievable stimulation.

As you move over the body, delight and excite body curve. Stroke all the areas that are often ignored. That is the mark of a truly creative lover. He/she doesn’t follow the same route to pleasure. They include all the parts that are rich in nerve endings.

Creating trust is important. Use then to stroke erogenous zones in a way that fingers can never achieve. Whether you use the feather’s tip or its broad width, each will create a different sensation.

Adjust the pressure as you use the feather. Include stimulating the underarms, belly button, pelvis, loins, inner thighs, lower back and in between fingers and toes. Use feathers to tantalize and tease these ‘hot spots’. The sensation can be dynamic!


Whether you’ve gotten a strip of fur from an old coat, or purchased a fur covered massage mitt, nothing feels as delightfully warm, incredibly soft, and sensually delicious. Caresses every inch of your lover’s body and note how they melt at your touch.

Initially the strokes can take on the feel of a regular massage. Eventually they take on an erotic quality. Fur is especially nice because it has an excellent viscosity. That means it doesn’t drag or cause friction. With it you don’t need any oil on the skin. Its texture feels luxurious and splendid to the recipient.

Start at the nape of the neck. With even pressured strokes move towards the heart center. When you rub the legs or arms, move up toward the heart center. The pressure should vary between light strokes to excite, medium to caress to strong to relax.

Are you using these secrets of sensual lovemaking to get your lover hotly excited? Or is your goal to make them feel relaxed and passionate? The pressure you use with a fur mitt divulges your intentions.


Women have long appreciated the happy feel of fur and feathers against their skin. They usually don’t fret about which hot spots are appropriate to touch and can appreciate a variety of strokes from one end of their body to the other.

Men, on the other hand, are not as comfortable inside their own skin. Unless they are sensually evolved lovers, comfortable with their body image and sense of self, they often have a hard time relaxing when fur or feathers are being used.

I would recommend a relaxing massage first. This way he is more apt to be open to being titillated with a feather or fur. The massage can be as short as five minutes.

Don’t stress about it. Just come to them with the intention of giving pleasure and your secrets of sensual lovemaking will be well received as they are revealed.



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