Sensual LingerieSensual lingerie is the costume of creative sensual love. When Shakespeare said ‘all the world’s a stage’, he was acknowledging how we create life from fantasy and how the world sees us. When creating sexual fantasy, sensual lingerie must be included, not only for the statement it makes, but for how it helps us relate to the character we’re creating, how it makes us feel when wearing it, and what we reveal about our inner sexual selves with our outer sexual accoutrements. When lingerie is at its best, it minimizes the negative and accentuates the positive. Whatever body part is less than perfect, wearing sensual lingerie hides real or imagined flaws. Disguising flaws in beautiful colors and enticing materials inspires self confidence and feelings of desirability. To maximize its pleasure it should be worn for as long as possible. Teddies or baby dolls with exposed breasts and/or crotch don’t “get in the way” and can be worn throughout foreplay. Deciding on a style for an anticipated rendezvous is, in a way, directing the focus the rendezvous will take. Initiating a beginning can help direct the outcome. Wearing sensual lingerie is the woman’s lead. Instead of leaving foreplay up to him, she’s initiating the direction, thus taking more responsibility for her own pleasure. With so many styles, there is bound to be at least one for each body type. The female's sensual skin is enhanced and far more fetching in flattering sensual lingerie. Styles take on a life of their own while creating a sensual art form with the female body. For example, a French or Shelf Bra allows naked breasts to maintain their cleavage. A baby doll suggests coquettishness, innocence and sweetness. The long gown is at the heart of seduction and romance. The softness of lingerie material and the risque style hint at the softness of her skin underneath and the endless possibilities for pleasure. The feminine body in lingerie becomes a living fantasy. Sensual lingerie has visual appeal and erotic potential. Its declaration of sensual and sexual femininity bears a bold attitude of invitation. Seduction, indeed, may occasionally be the goal, but for many a woman wearing lingerie is part of her personal sensual mystique. Women who feel silly wearing lingerie are not comfortable with declaring their desire to be sexual. They haven’t embraced the idea that females are sensual creatures by nature, so wearing lingerie, especially under marital obligation, makes them feel alienated and silly. Countless women dismiss sensual lingerie as unnecessary when it comes to seduction. They say, “why bother?” When they tried wearing it, it either got ripped off too quickly and torn, or worse yet, he commented that it’s “very nice” and then told her to remove it. For these men lingerie is seen as an obstacle to touching the breasts and vagina directly. Anticipation is the psychological key to female pleasure, so undressing slowly and breathing on every curve as the clothing falls off builds excitement like wildfire, adding thrill to imaginative foreplay. For those women who are extremely insecure about the shape of their bodies, they reject exploring the fantasy part of their sexuality. But whether you’re body beautiful, average, or full-figured-- beauty is in the eye of the beholder! You may look at yourself with a critical eye, but when your lover sees his ladylove wearing lingerie, he sees just the invitation to come and enjoy the party. He doesn’t look with the same critical eye. Peeling back layers, revealing skin, and gently kissing all over are the physical pleasures to sensual lingerie.
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