Sexual Advice for Men

Sexual advice for men has been vague for many years. Throughout history, when it came to sexual satisfaction, it was his pleasure that was all important and the woman was secondary, if at all considered. That is still the way it is in many less civilized areas of the world.

This lopsided relationship developed over the centuries because since the beginning of recorded history, according to church and state, sex was only sanctioned to make children.

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For that to happen, the man has to ejaculate, which we always erroneously equated with sexual orgasm. (Actually, a man can have an orgasm without ejaculating and can ejaculate without having an orgasm, but I digress).

The woman doesn’t need any sexual satisfaction to produce children, so after centuries of producing children with this kind of relationship, his orgasm became all important and hers was not important, at all.

That is until the sexual revolution of the 1960’s that showed that women are the gate-keepers to sensual sexuality. Women have erogenous zones from the top of their head to the soles of their feet and are easily multi-orgasmic.

Women are orgasmic via their genitals and without any genital contact at all. Since orgasms start in the mind, to have sexual pleasure and satisfaction, all it takes is time, care, consideration, and a lover who knows that when it comes to being a great lover, the motto should always be, ‘ladies first’.



If a woman has one, two or even three orgasms before the man has his, her orgasms will not impact whether he can have an orgasm with her. But if he ejaculates before she does, his semi-erection (or lack of erection) will fully impact her satisfaction with him.



A semi-limp penis is not hard or stiff enough to rub the clitoris or g-spot with enough friction to build tension. That is why it is extremely important for men to delay their gratification until his lady love has hers.

It takes an experienced lover at least twenty minutes of physical and mental stimulation to arouse the average woman so that her genitals fill with enough blood to have an orgasm.

Since men’s genitals fill with blood in less than a minute, they mistakenly believe that if she does not excite as quickly as he does there is something wrong with her.


Another bit of sexual advice for men: The longer it takes a fellow to have an orgasm, the more intense and satisfying it will be. I liken it to boiling water. Allow only a rim of bubbles and you have minimal steam. Wait for a rolling boil and you’ll have lots of steam and a greater explosion.

If a guy has the habit of premature ejaculation, and it’s said that 50% of the men in the USA suffer from this, there are several ways to fix the problem.



There are delay gels, cock rings, the Squeeze Technique which is a series of exercises that take about a week, or by wearing an adjustable cock ring at the top of the scrotum. The cock ring at the top of the scrotum keeps the testicles away from achieving the body heat they need for ejaculation.

The best sexual advice for men is that when it comes to making love, take your time. Make sure it’s the big head on your shoulders calling the shots, not the little one that hangs out with those nuts.



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