Sexual ClinicsHave you visited any of your local sexual clinics lately? They are intended to give you the information you need to stay sexually healthy through the many sexual cycles of your life. From menstruation through pregnancies and into menopause, understanding the changes your body is going through is crucial to making good decisions. Along with sound medical advice, prescriptive behaviors and meds, the sexual clinics of today can offer many treatments for sexual dysfunction such as premature ejaculation or decreased female sexual libido. Every case is evaluated individually.
Sexual clinics should be busier than ever. I’ve met hundreds of women who have admitted difficulty achieving an orgasm as well as having a decreased libido but will never seek professional help for these concerns. Sometimes answers for the more common sexual concerns can be found in a less sterile, less expensive environment, such as the Pleasure Party, where the ways and means to improve your sex life are candidly discussed and readily available. When it comes to something as common and frustrating as premature ejaculation, it’s good to know that it’s nothing more than a learned bad habit. Learn early in life how to bring on an orgasm slowly, and the choice of when to ejaculate is in your hands, literally. That truly is when the big head (on his shoulders) is making the decision instead of the little head (the one that hangs out with nuts). Fixing that bad habit takes about two weeks of a self-improvement technique called “The Squeeze Technique” where the man stimulates his penis to an erection but doesn’t allow an orgasm. While masturbating slowly without the intention of ejaculation, he learns where his control lies. Two weeks of this may seem like a long time. But premature ejaculation has been his habit since he was a teenager. That bad habit took a long time to establish so it’s going to take some time to change. After two weeks of disciplining himself he is ready to build his orgasm to a quality conclusion. The explosion is so much more intense, so much more satisfying, because he’s built up sexual tension instead of just taking a little off the top. Another common problem that is addressed at Sexual Clinics is low sexual desire, called Inhibited Sexual Desire. This problem is a result of living in a highly stressed and rushed society. By living constantly in a “fight or flight” mode, it is nearly impossible to expect cooperation from your body. The body must relax to build sexual tension. If you’re physically and mentally exhausted you can’t expect your body to get frisky on demand. That’s asking too much. We feed ourselves fast food with little to no nutrition. We don’t exercise, consume too much alcohol, and don’t get enough sleep. When an opportunity presents itself to ‘get it on’ we wonder why our body won’t respond appropriately. The spirit may be willing but the flesh is weak. Let's look at the unhealthy way we treat our bodies. Instead of looking to medications to compensate for our sexual problems, take a step back, a deep breath and make better choices. If not, unhealthy choices will not only contribute to your sexual dysfunction today, but to your early demise as well. At Sexual clinics women learn how to have an orgasm. A recent study found that ten percent of women cannot and probably will not have an orgasm during their entire lifetime. This is an especially ridiculous number when you realize that the female body is designed for pleasure. When women allow themselves to be physically and emotionally sensitive, we have all the equipment specifically for orgasm, that is, the clitoris, among other parts. That is part of the female design for pleasurable sex. We wouldn’t have it if it was unnecessary. Unlike appendix, the clitoris is here to stay. The problem then is either her physical health or her mental attitude about having pleasure. In cases of sexual abuse or sexual assault, Sexual Clinics have the resources and staff to help her heal. She has to want the help. She has to believe she deserves pleasure and happiness in her life and must seek the light at the end of the tunnel.
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