Sexual Match

When it comes to determining a sexual match between individuals who will appreciate each others’ desire, libido and abilities, understanding their level of sexual appetite is crucial.   

How hungry are they, sexually speaking, that is?  Everyone does not need or want the same amount of sexual encounters.  For some, 12 sexual encounters per month may be perfect; for others that number may be excessive, and for others it may seem a starvation diet.

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  Appetites can be developed so that technique improves—everyone who wants to get better can.  Not everyone learns at the same pace.  And depending on the teacher, some will be reticent to improve, taking any criticism as an attack on their masculinity. 

Women aren’t expected to know anything so their lack of knowledge doesn’t cast an aspersion on their desirability.  That makes them willing, eager and able to learn sexual techniques without their egos being damaged. 

But although technique can be improved, and with that sexual appreciation, appetites, that is, the amount of sex that the individual needs or wants to participate in, is determined by their relationship to their parents, and the personality they were born with.

Among men, there are three basic types of lovers:

The novice who orgasms quickly and makes no apology for it. His best choices for sexual compatibility are either the wife or prostitute mentalities. Since sexual satisfaction is not their goal, his lack of control or need for variety is never an issue.

The Renaissance Lover, who enjoys the addition of lotions, prolonged sexual foreplay, fantasy and experimentation would do well with Hetaerae as his match.

And for men who make a lot of money and depend on it to attract women, with foreplay taking less than ten minutes before culmination, prostitute or wife are the best sexually compatible choices.

When it comes to sexual compatibility, the best advice is to know and accept yourself as you are and be honest when you’re meeting a potential partner about what ‘s important to you in a relationship.  If you need or want lots of sex, and your prospective partner is OK with a lot less than you, acknowledge that.   

Don't try to change your partner from how they really are or believe they'll change into how you want them to be.

Once you recognize your own sexual appetite based on your sexual needs and desires, you can make a wiser choice based on true compatibility, rather than on hopes of how it could be.



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