About Me - Sensuality Consultantؘ™ In 1981 I attended my first pleasure party and was hooked. All the fun, laughter and opportunities to talk about sex in a positive way were there. No judgment, no jealousy, no worries about being seen as kinky, weird or over-sexed. Just a great time to laugh and share how we all want the same thing -- pleasure! So on February 4th I jumped in and started presenting pleasure.
35 years later I’m still here, instead I’ve extended my reach (via the internet) to the whole world.
Along with presenting in private homes, I’ve expanded my lectures to include colleges and as a guest speaker for women's organizations. Wherever women gather is where I’d go to give spread a message of self love, joy and pleasure.
In 2009 I self-published, Don’t Do it in the Dark: An Enlightened Guide to Sensual Sexuality . A year later it was discovered and re-orchestrated by Down There Press who changed its name to Loving Sex: Every Woman’s Guide to Sensual Sexuality. It covers our erotic lives from many levels: Spiritual, Physical, and Mental. You'll want to read it more than once.
In June 2012 it was on the best seller list. Anyone who wants to grow as a lover will appreciate its concept, approach and techniques.
You may ask why I believe I am qualified to give such advice; what makes me so different from the 1000’s of others who have written about sexual pleasure. My qualifications cannot be certified in the traditional way. My knowledge is experiential. Unlike the 'hit or miss' approach of my contemporaries, my sexual education began on a very positive note and has increased in depth of knowledge because of its solid foundation. I had the opportunity to learn, to ask questions and to begin my sex life in a positive way to enjoy our God given abilities. It was one of the greatest blessings of my life.
Having this phenomenal beginning gave me a unique appreciation on which to build and in my life. Experimentation, growth and excellent communication have helped me grow as a lover. My personal view about pleasure is that it is our birthright, bestowed upon us by our Creator.
I’ve been sharing these insights and practical information born of compassion for all I meet in their quest for joy.
I sincerely believe that every orgasm is a gift from the God-head. Notice the explosion of light going on in your head next time you have a mind blowing orgasm. That is your light, magnified 1000 times, spreading throughout your entire organism bringing vitality, love, and healing. When you know who you are and that you are meant for pleasure, the world looks very different, indeed.
I want to thank you for visiting my blog. In it I will share my passion, enthusiasm and information about my favorite subjects in the world—sensuality and sexuality combined. In my humble opinion these two pleasures and the intricacies that connect them are the best part of being human!
Although it is a labor of love I take this art form with respect and reverence. I believe that our sexuality is a source of health and vibrancy in our lives. If we choose to see it as something less, we diminish the possibilities of our life force.
Our erogenous zones are meant for pleasure. Become familiar with them. We are meant for pleasure. Once you embrace that notion and become responsible in your actions, you will be part of a society moving forward, leaving the stigma of eroticism with our neurotic, misinformed ancestors. Discover what your pleasure is and incorporate it into your life. You deserve it.
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